In the olden days, traditionally children were named after other family members. Names passed from generation to generation, using first names on each side of the family. Using surnames, the last name of prior generations on the mother’s side of the family, often became middle names for the boys.

Many families are now getting away from this practice and they are picking a first name that is unique for their child and then use a family member’s first name or a surname as a middle name to honor their relatives.

When naming your baby, pick names that work well together, have a natural flow to them. Your child may decide to use both their first and middle name together, or prefer their middle name as they mature. Watch out for any nicknames, some may not be so flattering.

Write the entire name out on paper; see how it looks when written. Combining one long name with a short middle name and a long last name creates balance and rhythm, as does three short names together. Consider your heritage; pick names that fit well together. Also, think about how easy is the name going to be for your child to pronounce and write itself.

Purchase a baby name book. Names, with the variations of a name, the meanings of the name, as well as the ethnic background are given. There is usually a section showing the most popular names recently chosen. Naming you child after a current movie star or music icon might sound appealing to you now but is that a name you really want your child to have throughout their life?

With the wonders of ultrasound, you can now see your baby and know the sex ahead of time, giving you lots of time to pick a name. Pick out several that you really like because there is a chance that once you look them in the face, the name you originally chose may not seem to fit them.

There is nothing worse than hearing your child in later years say “I hate my name.” Remember the name you choose is very special to you and your child so take plenty of time with your selection and choose wisely.